Chapter 121 121【Owe a favor】


    Lying in bed at night, Qiao Yingzi sent a WeChat message to Xiang Nan.


    “Fang Hou’er, you are so amazing. You can guess every move of my mother.”


    “She really bought me clothes today, took me out for a big meal, and went to the theater to watch Mission: Impossible 6.”


    “How could you guess so accurately?”


    Xiang Nan smiled after receiving the WeChat message, and then replied, "The mountain man has his own clever plan!"


    “Let’s talk first, I won the bet this time. You didn’t forget what the bet was, right?”


    “Rogue!” Qiao Yingzi yelled, and also sent a beating emoji.


    Xiang Nan replied with an emoticon saying "Don''t be afraid, I am indeed a gangster" and laughed.


    “Hmph, are you going to tell me or not?” Qiao Yingzi continued to dig into the matter.


    "Sister, you are asking for help. Can you have a better attitude?" Xiang Nan replied.


    “The daughter of the common people asks for help from the great immortal Yifan!” Qiao Yingzi thought for a while and replied.


    “This attitude is pretty much the same.” Xiang Nan replied, “But tell you, what’s the benefit of me?”


    Qiao Yingzi immediately sent an emoticon of "big casserole fist".


    Xiang Nan replied with a "Afraid of resetting HD" emoticon package.


    “Okay, tell me what you want,” Qiao Yingzi replied.


    “I haven’t thought about it yet,” Xiang Nan replied.


    ? He ??originally wanted to reply "I want you", but considering that the time was not yet ripe, he didn''t send it.


    “Tah!” Qiao Yingzi replied.


    "Well, you owe me a favor, and you must pay it back in the future." Xiang Nan replied.


    "OK, can you tell me?" Qiao Yingzi agreed readily, and then asked quickly.


    "Actually, it''s not difficult to guess what Aunt Song is thinking. She loves you but wants to control you, so she always gives you a slap in the face." Xiang Nan said with a smile, "She disrupted your dream of letting go yesterday. I will definitely find a way to make it up to you today. To coax a little girl like you, why don’t you just go shopping and watch movies? What other tricks can you use?”


    “…” Qiao Yingzi was stunned for a moment, and then thought about it carefully. What Xiang Nan said was exactly the same as her experience.


    Her mother did always give her a slap in the face.


    ?For example, if she confiscated her Lego toys at noon, she would make her something delicious in the evening; if the mother and daughter had a quarrel today, her mother would give her a gift the next day.


    “Fang Hou’er, what should I do?” Qiao Yingzi asked for help, “My mother treats me well and badly sometimes, and I really can’t stand it.”


    "I have no idea about this kind of thing right now." Xiang Nan replied, "Well, I will go to the bookstore to read some books on parent-child relationships in the past two days, and then I will analyze it carefully for you."


    "Thank you, Fang Hou''er." Seeing him say this, Qiao Yingzi felt very warm.


    …


    The next day, Xiang Nan took Lin Lei''er to go through the transfer procedures.


    ?The two of them ran around for two days and finally got everything done.


    “Cousin, thank you so much.” Lin Leier said gratefully.


    “Thank you for everything, we are all one family.” Xiang Nan waved his hand and said with a smile.


    Fang Yuan and Tong Wenjie couldn''t help but praise him greatly when they saw that Xiang Nan had accomplished this matter.


    “Son, you have really grown up.” Tong Wenjie said happily.


    “Fang Yifan, that’s great!” Fangyuan also gave a thumbs up.


    …


    ?After helping Lin Leier complete the transfer procedures, Xiang Nanzhen went to the bookstore and bought a few books on parent-child relationships.


    ?Such as "Nonviolent Communication", "Why Home Hurts People", "Every Child Needs to Be Seen", "P.E.T. Parent Effectiveness Training: Making Parent-Child Communication So Efficient and Simple", etc. Most of these books are outstanding works written by well-known educationists and psychologists at home and abroad based on their many years of research and combined with practical examples.


    It contains both theoretical research and case analysis. It is also written in an interesting and vivid way, and is very worth reading.


    Xiang Nan then read it carefully and felt that it was really helpful.


    ?However, just by reading a few psychological counseling books and parent-child relationship books, Xiang Nan did not think he could resolve the conflict between Song Qian and Qiao Yingzi.


    Because theories are dead and people are alive.


    Human emotions and psychology are very complex, ever-changing, and unpredictable.


    Expecting that reading a few books will solve psychological problems is like reading a few tutorial books to get into Tsinghua University. It is simply a daydream.


    As the saying goes, it is easy to change a country, but it is hard to change one''s temperament.


    Song Qian is already in her forties, and her personality has long been fixed. It would be extremely difficult to change her mind.


    In the play, if Qiao Yingzi had not suffered from moderate depression and had suicidal tendencies, Song Qian would never have repented.


    In fact, this was beautified by the TV series.


    In real life, extremely controlling parents like Song Qian, even if they force their children to death, will not admit their mistakes and will only blame their children for not understanding their painstaking efforts.


    ?Hence Xiang Nan did not immediately give Qiao Yingzi any advice.


    …


    September 1st, the school officially opened.


    On the first day of school, the Fang family set out early in the morning.


    Fang Yuan drove Tong Wenjie, Fang Yifan, and Lin Lei''er to Zhaohui and headed to school.


    According to Tong Wenjie, this is a way for the whole family to come together to make a good start for the new semester.


    “Fanfan, you must take good care of Leilei at school and act like a cousin. Do you know?” Tong Wenjie warned.


    "Don''t worry, no one dares to bully him as long as I''m here." Xiang Nan nodded.


    “Leilei, if you encounter any problems, go to Yifan. Don’t carry it yourself.” Tong Wenjie warned again.


    "I understand, aunt." Lin Lei''er nodded sensibly.


    When I arrived at the school gate, I saw Teacher Li Meng standing in front of the door with the students on duty, looking at the students coming and going.


    "Hello, Teacher Li Meng. This is my nephew Lin Lei''er. It''s his first day of school today. Please take good care of him in the future." Tong Wenjie smiled and said, "Lei''er, this is your class teacher, Teacher Li."


    “Hello, Teacher Li~” Lin Leier greeted quickly.


    “Well, okay, let’s go in.” Li Meng nodded.


    Xiang Nan immediately pulled Lin Leier into the school and took him to Class 3, Grade 3.


    ?As soon as he entered the classroom, he saw Qiao Yingzi writing a daily question.


    This is a project specially developed by mathematics teachers to improve students'' mathematics level. A difficult math problem is given to students every day, but very few can solve it.


    As soon as Lin Lei''er saw this question, he stood still.


    A moment later, Qiao Yingzi finished writing the question, turned around and saw Lin Lei''er, and was slightly startled, "Classmate, who are you looking for?"


    ?Lin Lei''er did not answer, but picked up the chalk and started answering directly on the blackboard.


    “He is my cousin, Lin Lei’er, a top student from southern Fujian.” Xiang Nan introduced with a smile.


    “Your cousin?!” Qiao Yingzi looked at Lin Lei’er in surprise, “Well, let’s not say it, it looks a bit similar.”


    “Of course.” Xiang Nan smiled.


    (End of this chapter)